You have understood how to meet top 10 men after reading my previous articles. After meeting high-quality men, you’ll need to know how to attract them. Now I’m going to share the most effective strategies with you, so wealthy gay men will be eager to date you.
Behave like a 10
Your beliefs about yourself conditions your relationship with a man. Not only will your beliefs affect who you meet, they will also have a big impact on the quality of the relationship you’ll have.
Now I’d like you to consider yourself a prize worth fighting over, then you will find yourself valued highly by wealthy gay guys as well.
From now on, whenever you step out the door, step out dressed to kill. Throw your shoulders back and push your chest out. Convince yourself that you are the most beautiful man in the world, then move accordingly.
If you need some help to boost your confidence, remember to wear the right makeup (yes, many gay men wear makeup, and that’s okay). According to a major study, people’s opinions of every gay guyare very different when he wears lip gloss. Indeed, you instantly look more sophisticated when you wear lip gloss. This is not something we talk about or consciously think about, but lip gloss is designed to attract wealthy gay men by mimicking the sexual organs. Coloring your lips red sends a non-verbal signal of sexual arousal – no wonder we love wearing lip gloss.
Most gay guys tend to lick their lips (or want to do so) whenever there is something or someone arousing. That’s because in the brain the area which controls eating is the same area that controls sex. Very interesting, isn’t it?
If you are going to an upscale gay party, remember that the secret of looking good all night is to make an effort before going out and then forget what you look like.
Wear a conversation starter
Whenever you go to a gay event, wear or bring something unusual to giverich gay men a reason to talk to you first. Take myself as an example. I always wear bangles designed by Megan Hess. I have every bangle designed by her – they have different colors and different patterns. Everywhere I go, people approach me and want to talk about my bangles.
You don’t necessarily have to wear artistic bangles like I do, but you may consider wearing or carrying something unique at a gay venue. For instance, if you are going to a wine tasting event, can you wear a classy wine bottle necklace which is made of silver? It doesn’t have to be exaggerated. Your necklace can still be elegant. But it has to be unique and classy. I’m sure you can get something like that at a low price online.
Meet the Party-Giver
Previously in another blog article, I mentioned the importance of arriving at a gay party early so that the party-giver can introduce all other guests to you. Now I’d like to show you how to make sure you will definitely be introduced to the wealthy gay guy that you are interested in.
Even if the party-giver didn’t introduce a particular man to you, you can simply chat with the party-giver and then you simply say, “Who’s that?”
Don’t be afraid to say “Who’s that?” This is the most effective but least used meeting-men tool.
You are already at this gay venue, so you should make the gay party work for you. Be the chooser, not the choosee. If you only spend time with people who choose you, you’ll waste a lot of time because men who choose you aren’t necessarily the right men that you want. Don’t wait until someone approaches you. It’s your job to make it happen. You just need to be proactive in a smart way.
If you want to meet that rich gay guy without the help of the party-giver, that’s fine, too. Here is how to do it: You make eye contact and smile at him, then you ask him, “How do you know the host John?” If he is talking to someone else, you can get closer to them and say, “Excuse me, I couldn’t help but overhear…” This is especially effective if he is talking to a group of ugly men because he would appreciate a beautiful gay guy who wants to join their conversation.
Create a deep connection
This technique alone will change how you interact with people forever. This is how to do it:
First of all, when you attend a gay event, don’t give everyone a big smile. If you always wear a big smile, the guy that you are actually interested in won’t feel special because it seems that your big smile is for everyone. Therefore, simply smile at people moderately and friendly, but when you see the rich gay man that you like, now your smile has to change its nature. Let me explain this process in detail: You look at his face for a second. Pause. Think loving thoughts (this allows your pupils to enlarge gradually). Then your smile broadens like a flood sending a warm wave between you two.
Second, when you talk to him, remember to use words such as “we”, “us” and “our” often. This will instantly make him feel that you two have known each other for a long time. Also, using phrases like “I understand” and “I can relate to what you say” will make him feel psychologically closer to you, thereby creating a gem stone effect – now he feels that you are a very special gay guy who understands him. As to compliments, you need to be careful because most wealthy gay men receive a lot of compliments frequently. Therefore, any compliment from you should be unique. There are two ways to pay him a compliment effectively:
1) The compliment should be subtle. For example, you can say, “Being as intelligent as you are, you wouldn’t miss out on that.” Or “Smart people like you often feel that way.” A subtle compliment is ten times better than saying “Oh, you are so smart!”
2) End the conversation with an unforgettable compliment. Yes, you should end the conversation with him first. Remember to end the conversation when he is really into it, so he will want more. If he likes you, he will find a way to talk to you again later. Now this is how to end the conversation with an unforgettable compliment – You tell him that you have to talk to the party-giver or someone else now, and you say something like, “What penetrating midnight blue eyes you have.” Then you leave the conversation. He will be thinking about you for the rest of the night.
Lastly, make sure you maintain eye contact while ending the conversation. Your body language should indicate you are leaving, but you don’t break eye contact even after you two have finished talking. Gradually and slowly, you look away. This eye contact will make him feel that he is the only person in the room. The crowd disappears.